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12 Flirty Questions to Ask a Girl You Like

Ask the girl you're interested in the flirtiest questions we could come up with! This will get her to talk to you in no time.

Sarah Hall By Sarah Hall Reviewed by Thessa Phillips

Did you know that according to a survey, 70% of women enjoy flirting with guys regardless of the time or place? However, mastering the art of flirting can be tricky. It’s important to convey that you’re harmless, attracted, available, and vibrant. Psychologists suggest that asking questions is a polite way to start flirting with a girl, rather than being overly touchy. This can make you appear harmless and even make her smile.

If you’re wondering about flirty questions to ask a girl on a first date or through her DMs, forget about basic inquiries and check out the list of flirty questions our experts approve of asking a girl.

Let’s start with perfect, subtle flirty questions to start a great conversation:

1. Can You Find Someone More Beautiful Than You Here?

Taraji P. Henson once said, “It’s rare to find a heterosexual woman who doesn’t desire a compliment from a man. And if he asks interestingly, it makes her feel even more special.”

Rather than simply saying “you look beautiful,” twisting the compliment into a question can open up room for more dialogue.

“That means whether you desire a long-term relationship with her or a short-term romance, this is an effective way to build the cordiality you need to move to the next stage,” Taraji advises.

Additionally, complimenting a woman in a unique and memorable way can set you apart from other men who may simply tell her she is beautiful.

2. How Did You Catch My Attention So Easily?

Whether you’re communicating through DMs or face-to-face, this flirty question is sure to make her smile.

According to a 2022 online survey, girls are more likely to be receptive to guys who make them smile during their first conversation. That’s why Dr. Edward Lee, a clinical therapist, encourages men to find ways to impress the girls they like, such as asking creatively crafted flirty questions to make her smile.

Asking her why she caught your attention can not only make her smile, but also wonder what you like about her.

This opens the door for continued conversation. When you do have the chance to talk more, avoid saying anything absurd, such as “it’s because you have nice boobs or a curvy body.” Instead, say something like, “I think you caught my attention with the way you make me feel.”

This response is mysterious and compliments her in a more subtle way. Everyone loves a good mystery, especially one that’s flattering.

3. What’s Your Secret to Having Flawless Skin?

A 2022 survey on what women find irresistible revealed that compliments about their skin topped the list.

“If you knew how much effort 60% of women put into achieving great skin, you’d understand why a compliment like this stands out in their mind,” says Los Angeles dating expert James Truth.

This question isn’t just the perfect flirty question because it’s harmless and shows you’re attracted to her, but also because it’s a bold one that many guys shy away from. Chances are, you’ll be the first to ask her this. Fortunately, confidence is an attractive feature that many women find alluring in the men who flirt with them.

As your conversation progresses, you’ll want to ask more directly flirty questions to show that you’re interested in being with her. Below are some flirty questions that experts recommend asking after having a great conversation.

4. How Are You Making Me Go Insane?

According to New York-based sex therapist Angela McCain, there’s no better way to keep a romantic conversation going with a girl than by making her feel like she has some power over you.

Every girl would find it flattering to know that she can have a strong effect on you. A flirty question such as “Why do you make me go crazy just by looking at your headshot?” can make her feel desired and intrigued about you.

5. Are You Aware of How Sexy You Are?

According to psychologist James Bernard, women who are complimented on their physical appearance are more likely to develop higher self-confidence than those who don’t receive such compliments. Therefore, aiming to boost her confidence in a world where women are held to high beauty standards is a winning strategy to make her like you.

After having a steady conversation for a couple of days, you can ask her a complimentary question like, “Do you know how beautiful you are?” This can make her feel good about herself and potentially see you differently.

6. Has Anyone Ever Been Crazy in Love With You?

“We women find it interesting when our men love us passionately and deeply, giving us the impression that it’s just the two of us against the world. A romantic relationship that challenges societal norms, modesty, and general expectations can come off as crazy, but it’s that very magic that makes a woman feel like she’s found someone special,” says relationship counselor Paula Jake.

Ask your girl, “has anyone ever loved you crazily?” This question will make her believe you are ready to go miles for her and it’s perfect to start a talk about couple of goals.

7. What Is Your Favorite Kink?

“Life can be tough, and the bedroom can offer some stress relief,” says sex therapist Tyson Jenkins. “We shouldn’t shy away from exploring our sexuality because couples who engage in BDSM and other kinks often share a stronger bond and intimacy than those who don’t, based on years of experience in couple counseling. This can also impact their happiness and the longevity of their marriage.”

Hence, it’s not taboo to ask a girl about her preferred kinks, such as foot fetishes, masochism, gagging, or bondage. If you approach the topic of sexual preferences with confidence and respect, you might just be the person your partner has been waiting for. Keep in mind that asking about someone’s kinks should not be used as a conversation starter.

8. Are You Into Cuddling?

A girl who’s into you typically likes to be as close as possible and touchy with you. Signs that she’s attracted to you include:

  • Fixing her gaze on you.
  • Showing excitement when conversing with her.
  • Stroking.
  • Touching her hair while talking to you.

If you notice some of these signs in her, you could consider asking if she would be interested in cuddling with you. This could be a good way to initiate a date that might lead to a cuddling opportunity.

9. Are You a Fan of Six-Pack Abs?

Women are often attracted to men who appear strong and fit. If you have well-built muscles and six-pack abs, it’s okay to show them off. You could ask a woman if she finds six-pack abs attractive and if she would like to touch them. If she responds positively, you could suggest that she likes you because you have what she likes.

10. Do You Enjoy Hot Romance?

According to dating coach Melissa Donald, couples who keep their romance alive are more likely to sustain their love for each other over time. Women often seek partners who are able to maintain the passion and excitement in their relationship.

If you want to demonstrate this quality, you could ask a flirty question such as “do you like hot romance?” and then surprise her with a romantic gesture. This could mean showing up unexpectedly at her workplace, serving her breakfast in bed, having spontaneous sex, taking a bath together, or surprising her with a kiss out of the blue.

11. You Don’t Have a Boyfriend. Do You?

If you’re interested in pursuing a relationship with a girl, a direct question like “Do you have a boyfriend?” could be appropriate and ideal for her to know your real intentions.

“Women are attracted to men who are up front from the get-go, unlike guys who’d make them wait before popping the “will-you-marry-me question,” says Linda Brown, relationship expert.

12. What’s Your Favorite Feature of Your Body?

Sex therapist John Murray says, “You must know which part of her body she likes most, so you can shower her with compliments and even adore it as she does. In the long run, this piece of information could be helpful when sharing some intimate moments.”

Additionally, you could even get her gifts, such as a sexy bra if she loves her breasts the most, or shoes if she finds her legs alluring. A romantic gesture like this will endear her more to you until she’s completely enamored with you.

The key is to set the right mood before flirting with her.

Set the mood first.

Remember, it’s not that girls don’t want to be flirted with; they just need a guy who does it the right way. So, keep the atmosphere relaxed, begin with casual conversation starters, and then dive into full-blown flirty questions.

About the Author

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Sarah has been writing since 2016, taking after her parents' literary passions that inspired her even at a young age. She holds a degree in Psychology, which has aided her writing career by enabling her to understand others and approach them more effectively. Currently, she serves as an Editorial Writer for Chat Line Numbers, contributing to the blog with insightful articles and thought-provoking content. In addition to writing and Psychology, she enjoys playing tennis on the weekends.