Has the girl of your dreams broken up with you? Did you end it with someone and realize that you made a mistake and want her back? Changing a girl's mind to get her back will take time and patience.
Do not worry, and do not panic. Today we will show you a few ways to win the girl back and turn your situation around.
Understanding Why the Breakup Happened in the First Place
Before you can win her back, you need to understand why the relationship ended in the first place. This will help you realize what when wrong and how you can improve yourself to ensure that the relationship works the second time around.
Who Broke Up With Who?
You need to first take into consideration who ended the relationship at the beginning. Did you end it with her? If so, why did you end it? Were there problems that you had with her personality, or did you no longer feel like there was reason to stay in the relationship? You need to ask yourself the hard questions so that you can figure out if you want that again or not.
If she Ended It, Figure Out Why She Ended It?
If she was the one who ended the relationship, take a look as to why she ended it. When she broke up with you, what did she say was the reason. Ask your friends why they think the relationship did not work.
You cannot win her back unless you are willing to make a few changes to keep her happy. A girl will not want you back if you cannot make her happy. Think about your actions and what you would want to change the next time around.
Did You Show Enough Affection?
Girls like it when a man shows her affection romantically and not in a way that is just sexual. Do not make her feel like a piece of meat. You want to make her feel loved, cared for, and respected. If you were not showing her enough affection, this could be a reason as to why she was no longer interested in the relationship.
To get her back, this could be something that you work on for the future. Make a point to show her in a physical way that you care about her more than your words could ever express.
Did You Do Everything That She Asked?
When a girl is not happy in a relationship, before she will end it, she will tell you how she is feeling and what she is not happy with. She might ask you to change a few things that will make a difference and help you make your relationship stronger. Did you do everything that she asked of you within reason? Showing someone that you are willing to change a few things shows that you are willing to put the effort in to help grow your relationship.
With that being said, you mustn't change everything about yourself. You do not want to be the guy that changes his core to fit the mold that a girl wants. There is a limit. You can change a few things, but do not change all of you.
Steps to Win Her Back
Now that you have a better idea of why the relationship ended in the first place, you will be able to figure out which of the steps below will help you win her back.
1. Apologize for Your Actions Before the Relationship Ended.
A girl respects a person who apologizes for their actions. By saying sorry for what happened in the past, you will show her that you take responsibility for your actions and want to win her trust.
You want to make your apology sound sincere and not something that is being forced. Bring up some of the situations that you know upset her. Show that you care and that even if she does not take you back, you want to be a gentleman and say sorry.
2. Be Open and Honest With Her.
Sometimes a woman will end a relationship because she does not feel like she can connect to you on an emotional level. You want to be open and honest with her. Tell her how you feel and why you want her back. Let her know how much she means to you and what it is about her that you respect and miss the most.
Try not to bring up sex, as this will make her feel like all you want is something physical. You can let her know how good she makes you feel, and you feel confident about yourself when she is around you. The more honest you are, the better your chances will be.
3. Make Her Want You Again.
A great way to win her back is to make her want you again. Give her some space. Space makes the heart grow fonder, which means that the more space you give her, the more she will miss you, and then she will start to realize that she made a mistake and she wants you back.
You want to make sure that you do not give her too much space. Do not leave her alone for months because then she will get used to you not being around and find someone else.
4. Figure Out Ways to Make Her Laugh.
There is nothing a girl likes more than to have a man next to her that can make her laugh. Our lives are so stressful as it is, you need to be with someone who can make you laugh and smile after a long hard day.
Find out what makes her laugh and make an effort to do those things so that she can laugh with you and realize how happy you can make her.
Bring her a copy of her favorite comedy movie, share jokes with her or take her to see a comedy show. Anything to make her laugh and show her a good time. She will be back in your arms in no time.
5. Rebuild Your Relationship, Get to Know Each Other Again.
Putting effort into your emotional relationship with the girl is one of the strongest bonds you will form. To win her back, you need to start from the beginning. Relationships are hard, and you might have lost your way because you two no longer knew each other well enough.
Take the time to get to know the love of your life again. You want to start dating again and one of the main things about dating is getting to know each other. Tell each other secrets, learn what she likes and dislikes and find out what she wants in a relationship.
The key is to remember the small things that she tells you so that in the future, you will be able to do the small things that will make her smile and help her fall in love with you once again.
6. Remind Her Why You Started Dating in the First Place.
Your relationship wasn't always bad. Before the bad there was good. You need to remind her why you guys started dating in the first place. Take her to the place where you had your first kiss, first date, and so on. You want to create an environment whereby she can go down memory lane.
This will help remind her of all the good times you had together.
By reminding her, you will be placed back in her good books. When you in her good books, you will have a better chance at winning her back.
7. Give Her a Meaningful Gift.
Every girl loves being spoilt. She wants to feel like a queen but does not want to be given the same gifts repeatedly. Sometimes something small means a lot more than something big. In other words, if you get a gift custom made or an item from her favorite movie, she will appreciate that a lot more than a bunch of flowers.
You can get a coffee mug made with a picture of you both on it or you can buy her the perfume she wore on your first date. This shows that you listen to what she says and shows that you are putting in an effort. You want this relationship to work, and your gifts will show her that you love her, appreciate her, and want to make her feel special.
It Is Now Time To Keep The Girl
Now that you have all the steps and knowledge of how to win her back, it is now time for you to implement those steps and keep the girl. There a few things you need to keep in mind to ensure that you both do not end up in a bad place:
- Remind yourself why it ended in the first place and try not to repeat those mistakes.
- Relax! Do not walk on eggshells with her. She has taken you back, and if you show that you are putting in the effort, that is all that matters. You will both make mistakes again. Keep your lines of communication open, and your relationship will be golden.